 |
Creative
commons photo credit: Angie Nan
|
“A dream without a
plan is just a wish.” Katherine Paterson
When I left the
corner office of a high-growth tech company to work for myself, my
biggest fear was that without external deadline pressure, I would
never complete tasks again. Not one. Ever.
What I discovered was that checking
items off of my “to do” list was still relatively easy…even
with the distraction of social media.
The bigger challenge was ensuring that
when all those completed tasks were strung together, I reached a
meaningful goal – a dream even. There are an abundance of tech
tools and sophisticated systems available to help you manage your
time. But if after checking off all your tasks for the day, you feel
no closer to reaching your goal, try this really simple method that
has worked for me.
Start with your no limits list.
Write down your biggest dreams and aspirations. Make them as
measurable as possible and write down as many as you want.
Pick your one big meaningful
thing. Really just one. Not saying that you won’t work on
others, but many of us fail to reach our goal because we are trying
to work on too many directions at once. Good goals distract great
goals. So pick one. Really, just one.
Have a place for all your other
brilliance. Creative and entrepreneurial types tend to have an
abundance of amazing ideas. Have a place (one spot) to save all
those brainstorms for the future.
Create a space for your one big
thing. Get a box or clean out one drawer or empty a shelf to
keep that one goal you just wrote down. This space is sacred so only
items related to your goal are allowed in your box. Nothing else.
Ever.
Underwhelm yourself with easy
actions. Break your “big thing” into small
actions until there is one step that feels easy. Make one
phone call. Write 100 words. Some days, when you can, do a little
more.
Dedicate a day a month to your
dream. One day a month – blow it out of the park. Devote a
whole day to working on your one meaningful thing. Every day, but
especially on this day, get prepared the night before. Make a list
of what you would like to accomplish. Even set out your clothes.
Research shows that we have limited decision making capital everyday
so take care of all the insignificant decisions.
Set a deadline. Only after
working on your goal for about a month, set a deadline. Then
multiple it times two.
Don’t dream (or write or make
art or..) alone. Join or create a closed Facebook or
face-to-face group meet up. Not negotiable.
Distractions will still happen, but
they won’t derail you. (Though when you are writing a blog on time
management, it is not advisable to begin your day by studying a
tobacco body infographic – particularly if you don’t smoke.)
Tasks will be hard, but not insurmountable.
Basic systems work. Save the complexity
and sophistication for your dream – not the tools to manage it.
In the comments, tell us how you make
your time count for what really matters.
Author Bio
Paula is a former tech exec turned – entrepreneur and writer. She released he first book in the spring of 2013,
Take 5 for Your Dreams. She is co-founder of
What’s Your Brave?, a writing and media project that empowers girls and their parents to be brave, dream big, and take bold action.
Her work has been featured in: The Boston Globe, Online Christian Science Monitor, Tinybuddha, The Good Men Project, SheHeroes, and She Can’t What. It matters deeply to me that every person — that means you — on this planet has the opportunity to be who they really are and live what deep-down matters to them.
Sign up for Paula’s blog at:
www.justbewhoyoureallyare.com.
